Truth about Feminism!

About six months ago, I was attending a big event that took place in Cairo, the even overall was so inspiring it had different talks from different speakers about different aspects of life particularly in Egypt. 


One of these talks was about feminism and female rights in the Egyptian society. Before I get into details about the talk, and my own viewpoint regarding its discussed theories and concepts, let me tell you the exact definition of feminism. 

Feminism is a collection of movements aimed at defining, establishing, and defending equal political, economic, and social rights and equal opportunities for women.

So lets take a deeper look into this definition: 

The Act

Feminism is a collection of movements: so its not one act, its not something that  can be done within one organization or one campaign, its an ongoing process for change.  

The Action

Feminism defines: in other words it gives a meaning to the cause or to the female equality process
Feminism establish: it creates the right atmosphere and capabilities for women so they can take their rights 
Feminism defends: provide the needed protection and security for women  

The Activity 

Equal (To Men) 

1. Political Rights: The right to compete in the political world 
2. Economical Rights: have equal economical and financial statues 
3. Social Rights: have the same privilege in the social sphere 
4. Opportunities: have the same life and career chances 

So the conclusion out of this definition would be that feminism is not about talking nor giving speeches, its about the actual action in the real world. This bring us back to the talk I have heard about feminism during the event I attended. She was a young female in her mid 30's, her studies and work is all about giving female their rights and prestige in the Egyptian society, while she also holds a Phd in feminism theory and practice.

Her talk was mainly about how we "Women in the A & B Class" are not having full rights , and we are treated  as women, and we are looked upon as people who don't have the same intellectualism level as men. She kept on citing poetry about how we at Egypt are being called names, being harassed physically and mentally and we are not looked upon as active citizens in the society. She claims that we don't have the same work and life opportunities men have, and how women need to be Empowered in the Egyptian Society.   

With all due respect to the speaker, I totally disagree with her, let me tell you why: 

Demographics: 

If we took a look at the population structure, we would find out the both males and females are almost equal in numbers. 

0-14 years: 32.7% (male 13,725,282/female 13,112,157) 
15-64 years: 62.8% (male 26,187,921/female 25,353,947) 
65 years and over: 4.5% (male 1,669,313/female 2,031,016) (2011 est.)

According to the ministry of labor "The participation of women in Egypt's workforce has risen from 15.4 percent in 2001 to 23 percent in 2006," 

Lets take a look at the following tables that indicates women Education & Economic Empowerment, from AUC research center & Canadian International Development Agency, in 2010 

This first graph shows, the ratio between males and females in working occupations, and as it shows women are advancing in numbers more than men.

Whats interesting about the above graph, is the fact the women are advancing in the fields of Agriculture, hunting and education more than men. This indicates two things, 1. Women have more will and power , 2. They do jobs that men are inclined to do, which shows that women may have been looked at as the main source of money in rural areas and so called lower classes. 

The above graph explain itself, take a look and tell me what do you think about the numbers!?

The above table is the latest stats taken in the end of 2010, which shows the differences that are taken places between generations. Women are more advanced in the professional and technical fields, while they still have a high level of competitiveness in the sales and marketing area. Women are still advancing in the field of farmers, and hunters while ironically men are more advanced in handicrafts. If we looked at the unskilled workers field, indicates that women are far more skilled than men! 

Away from statistics what I see with my own eyes, and I am sure a lot of people will agree, is that all mangers and department heads in the A-B class are mainly women. So who do you think need more rights women or men?! 

Who Needs the Rights?

Away from that if we will be talking about women rights and feminism than we shouldn't be discussing that in the A-B classes. Lets start looking at lower classes, women who work daily and than there husbands beat them up for the money. Young girls who get married at young ages to way older men. Also looking at the indicator that women have far more participation in physical work like hunting, farming and fishing, while in God's words women are not made for that kind of work, yet they are still skilled and powerful enough to do so. 

Will give an example I see everyday, the maid that works at our house, gets beaten everyday from her husband so he can take her money, and when you ask her why are you still living with him, why are you keeping up with what he is doing to you? She smiles innocently and says, "He is the man, this is what he should do, without him I would be nothing" 

That is something we should be working on! This women is suffering from what I like to call "Intellectual Rape" she is stuck in the bubble of traditions! This case applies to millions and millions of Egyptian women in lower classes. These are the women we should, defend, define and establish their rights and opportunity not the women in the higher classes! 

The Myth of Empowerment!

Women should be empowered they need rights right and rights! and then? Lets look at the definition of empowerment 

Empowerment refers to increasing the spiritual, political, social, racial, educational, gender or economic strength of individuals and communities. It often involves the empowered developing confidence in their own capacities.

Yes I believe that women should be empowered by all means, the should enhance their capabilities;ties, adapt new skills and widen their knowledge, they should shine forever! But lets make it clear, women are born to do certain things that men can never do, while men are born to do other things, its not that what they do we cant do, its just that this is simply not our role in life and this is not what we are born to do!  And as a very special person I know said, "I believe that men are women are not equal, but they have equal rights"  I believe in something that is far more important than women empowerment, I believe in "Human Empowerment" I believe that both men and women should be equal in having rights to excel and flourish, they both deserve good quality education, they both deserve to be entrepreneurs they both deserve to have their role in society. They both deserve defending their right to live!